This could well be about my own potential retirement and how this last 1/4 (1/3?) of my life shall go. It could be about the part where owning the clinic for going into 2 decades now I’ve seen patients throughout their lives start to finish, children become adults and so many employees on their path through life which intersected with mine for a time.
But what is coming to mind is the aging of my elderly clientele, whom I’ve known and enjoyed so many interactions with, along with their pets. Usually its the pet aging faster than their hu-man of course. I believe Mark Twain suggested the greatest tragedy in life is the difference in the life span of a boy and his dog. The reverse is really really hard. You know the significant importance of that pet to their bonded care person. And while the person who knows the pet the best that used to bring them in and in a detailed manner describe their needs, it adjusts to someone else such as a family member bringing in the pet with or without that owner to establish care.
Today, a bit of a personal reveal, had a client drive their car dangerously close to into our lobby. I’ve heard of this happening to so many other vet hospitals, thinking “what a nightmare.” Bumper damage, concrete car stop gouge, plus scattered car parts all over. Driving privileges are about to be curtailed. We were somehow related to the loss of this significant modality to them. It was more important than their skill at driving to bring in Fluffy (name changed to protect the innocent) to make sure everything was ok. It is my life’s work to make sure this little old dog with multiple medical issues lives forever by whipping up one of my witches brews (as one of my buddies put it when I somehow magically kept his evil little dog alive longer than could possibly be guessed).
One of my favorite little old people stories was a couple that must have been in their 90s. She was a cartoonish acting classic sort, who would belt out regularly “drink, DRINK!” to him: barely cognizant, wearing a “Old as Dirt” ball cap and holding a bottle of ensure. All the way through out the door. Such a cute way of being together. Was that not one of if not the most important pets in the world?
So as I bear down on Grandpa-hood, having married off my eldest on Fathers day, which ages you believe you me … I take my big job of keeping the pets as healthy as possible as long as possible and add to it the extra pressure of maintaining that lengthy relationship as well. Whew, such a tough and satisfying/gratifying job especially when it works out.